Do you ever wonder what you are doing wrong and why you’re not getting second dates? There are many reasons women don’t go on second dates with a man.

Man and woman on a dateHere are ten of the main reasons why you don’t get a second date; you are late, you talk about how great you are all night along, you talk about any of your ex’s, you don’t mind your manners, you ask too many personal questions, you forget to thank your date for attending, you talk about marriage on the first date, you talk about having kids with your date, you try to have sex with your date, and the biggest no, no, would be getting drunk on your first date. Avoid making these mistakes and you will probably end up with a second date.

One of the biggest turn-offs on a first date would have to be, being late. Being late for the first date shows either you don’t care about the date or you’re not interested in your date. Being on time is one of the most important things to remember. If for some reason you are going to be late, call and let her know, so she is not waiting on you at that time.

Talking about how great you are all night can be a big turn-off and make her want to run away screaming. So, that means don’t talk about you all night, ask her about her life. Never talk about your ex’s on a first date that is a big turn off. Comparing your date to one of your ex’s, might show her that you are still in love with them and you aren’t ready for another relationship causing you to not get a second date. Make sure you always have good manners, whether it is chewing with your mouth closed, not talking with food in your food, or opening doors for your date. It’s always a great idea to show your date that you have great manners in public. Don’t ask your date too many personal questions; this may cause her to feel like she is at an interview or just make her feel out of place. Let her volunteer whatever information she would like to share with you. This is the biggest thing never to do on a first date, never talk about getting married on the first date. The best thing to do is avoid the word marriage. Talking about marrying someone on your first date is very creepy. The same goes for talking about having kids together on your first date. You will scare your date away. Also, a tip on what not to do on a first date would be don’t try to have sex with your date unless she brings it up first. Now here is a very important tip, don’t ever get drunk on a first date. Your date with think you’re a drunk and will want to stay far away from you.

Yes, these tips sound very easy and more or less are basic common sense, but a lot of guys make these mistakes on first dates. Always remember you only get one first impression, make it count.

2 Replies to “Top 10 Reasons why Guys never get a Second Date”

  1. Yes, bringing up past relationships, especially ones that ended ugly, mainly shows one that you are not over the past. Learn from those past relationships; don’t drag them into the new one.

  2. One of the biggest reasons that men do not get second dates is the constant bringing up of exes or women you have briefly dated. Your date does not want to hear about your previous lovers and it makes her uncomfortable. Telling her about it does not make you a stud, but actually makes you look lame. Keep these things to yourself and focus your attention on your date and getting to know her.

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