There are some men who get nervous when going on a first date. However, before dealing with the actual date, you will first need to know how to properly ask a woman out. Here are some tips that you could keep in mind as you ask someone to go on a date with you.
First of all, keep in mind that timing is everything. Being able to choose the right moment can be essential when asking someone out. Many relationships fail simply because the individuals involved met at the wrong time in their lives. This applies to asking a person out as well. Try to make sure that the woman you will be asking out is actually ready to date and make sure that you are ready to date as well. Decide first if you are ready to pursue any path the date may lead to.
When asking someone out, make sure that you exude a sense of self-confidence, but not too much as you do not want to turn the woman off. Ask her out in a polite and relaxed way. Make her feel that you are really interested in going out on a date with her. That way, she might just share the same interest in going out with you.
Try to think of a fun and casual activity that would be best for a first date. You can probably have lunch first and then take a walk around the park or watch a movie. You can also think of some unique ideas for a date such as going to an orphanage and participating in a social event or even flying some kites at the park. Try to think of things that you and your date would love to do together. That way, when you ask her out, it would be hard for her to say no.
When asking a woman on a date, make sure that you do so way advance before the actual date. That way, you could be more or less sure that she has not yet planned anything for that day. It would also give you plenty of time to get ready for the date.
Lastly, be prepared for rejection. Remember that not all women you try to ask out will say yes. She may simply not be interested or she could be doing something on the date you are asking her about. If the case is the latter, ask if she would be available some other day and give her your contact number. If she still seems to find a reason to not go out with you, accept it gracefully. Just tell her to call you whenever she wants to go out to have coffee or something.